I’ve been thinking about this post for such a long time, it’s hard to believe we’re almost halfway through this pregnancy by now!
Like I have heard from many others, second (and, I imagine, subsequent) pregnancies are so very different from the first. With a toddler there is not as much time to rest, and to think about the growing life.
The little pokes and rumbles are a good reminder though! Plus, the bump is starting to get more noticeable as you try and squeeze through narrow doorways or into your pyjamas.
Still, this pregnancy is a lot less present in our everyday life. Just the other day, my husband suddenly said “You are pregnant, aren’t you!”. Umm, yes.
Kaya is the only one who checks on the bumps progress regularly: “Is your tummy bigger again??”
He is convinced we’re having a girl. He is excited, but then, he doesn’t know how it’ll be. Neither do I.
We are not thinking about the birth yet, or what happens afterwards. Having two children. Discussed names. (Although I’ve been reading my name books. Adding to long lists. But then, I do that a lot anyway. I love names.)
There is still time. But considering how fast the first half of the pregnancy passed us by, it probably won’t be too long before the right time to think about all those things is here.
I’ve been feeling well; during both pregnancies I was lucky not to feel too sick in the beginning. I only went off a lot of foods in the first few weeks.
And I was always hungry.
With Kaya, I had bursts of incredible hunger and got very paranoid about having food with me wherever I went. This time round, I could eat constantly during those early weeks. Luckily that’s more or less back to normal now.
I do wish sometimes I had some exciting cravings, but I never do. Especially since my mother in law told my husband he has to get me whatever I want (as long as I’m pregnant anyway).
And he does listen to his mum, so I do get the odd hazelnut yogurt treat late in the evening.
Next week we have an appointment for the second and last ultrasound scan. With our recent move, I’ll be getting a new midwife now. I haven’t registered with a surgery yet here, but since I had Kaya in this district I suppose the new midwife won’t be a total stranger.
Next on the list, treat myself to a pair of maternity pyjamas. Luckily, the move has unearthed some maternity clothes from the depths of our garage, but I still have a gap around the middle section when I go to bed at night.
And as we slowly settle into our new home, I imagine we will soon begin settling into preparations for the new arrival as well.